1. Both have been through divorces in the past want to avoid the potential difficulties that come from

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2. They believe that avoiding marriage helps protect their children from any potential negative effects

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3. Both values the freedom and independence that comes with not being legally bound in a marriage.

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4. They believe that long-term commitment and love can exist outside the institution of marriage.

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5. They prefer to keep their personal and financial lives separate aspect of Marriage

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